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[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 bahaha oh that picture is the best and so relatable 😂. 

Why can I just picture her when she's 80 still singing and dancing to drive you crazy 😂.

Haha that's true. That's like you can ruin a toddlers whole day by cutting their toast the wrong way even if it's how they asked 😂.

Dogs are good especially as you like to go for runs, you'd have a running buddy ☺️. 

Cats are good but I'm allergic to them so I just enjoy having cuddles with other people's cats being that I can't live with one. 

Fish, just keep swimming 😂.

Haha she's definitely persistent but they say practice makes perfect. 

Smart thinking changing out of your work pants 😂. Haha oh your sis is just a bundle of fun 😂.

[AuntGlow]

Hello @Sunnyside226!

How are you feeling today? 💛

Aww that's really cute and such an organic way of meeting one another as well.

ooh, that is a good question. I try to remain open and communicative where I can, but acknowledge  when I don't have the space - how they react is often a reflection of where they are at, so maybe the boundary could involve reminding yourself that it's not you? 

I get that... hmm, would you consider therapy again in the new year? Perhaps a 'matching session' with a local clinic of psychologists could be helpful? This is where they match you with a therapist that best suits your story/needs. 

Yes! A safety plan is essentially things that help to regulate you. So, running helps... what else?

It sounds like you are allowing her to make her own decisions, whilst still being vigilant, which is really lovely. 

Lots of dancing!! haha

I like rivers, they are very peaceful. I am not the best swimmer, but I do like being in the water. ☺️

I knoooow! I am old. 

How did your OCD results go? 💛

I will be here next year, yes! I finish for the year tomorrow night. 🥳

[GezzaP]

Enjoy your break @AuntGlow .

[AuntGlow]

Thank you @GezzaP!

What will you do for yourself over the holiday period? 💛

[Sunnyside226]

 Hello aunty glow Honestly mate  not good not coping well  fed up 

Yh it is  I'm surprise they are still here lol 

That's really good of you to know that  you must have good communication skills.  Did it take a while to understand what you needed? 

I'll try 

I haven't decided yet  I don't want see like 5 different ones to find the right one. 

Running walking driving boxing  ripping up paper there's more just can't think 

Dancing is good glad you enjoyed yourself matey 

Rivers are really cool.  As long you can get to safety out of the water in an emergency your good.  

Swimming can be challenging for lots of people your not alone. 

You old?  Your ageing yourself a little to hard there   you seem young ( maybe in the heart) as everyone says haha 

The results come back yeh I have ocd  sucks just other thing on my list  feel alone in that 

Yaya I thought I would never chat with you again.  I'm glad your here next year 

I hope your holidays are lovely for you my friend @AuntGlow  look after yourself.   Your sounding hard on your self today.   My sis wanted me to ask I forgot did you and your girlfriend enjoy the movie wicked?   PS I don't mean in that way  bye  

[GezzaP]

Helper is coming today @AuntGlow . We are having roast pork in the weber and a few drinks after he cleans the house. Not doing anything Xmas day but that’s ok  will read my gardening magazines and maybe garden a bit. Don’t do New Year as can’t stay awake. Morning @tyme @Sunnyside226  @Sunnyside226 @Dreamy @Jynx 

[AuntGlow]

What will your helper assist with? @GezzaP 

Roast pork and a few drinks sounds AMAZING. 

Gardening is your perfect day!! 🤩

[GezzaP]

He does cleaning, gardening and handyman jobs @AuntGlow . Perfect day for gardening - 25 degrees.