Support for Flowerlove22

[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 i hear you and I know that feeling of weakness but it's times like this we find a strength that we didn't know we had. 

You're so welcome ❤️.

You are doing just fine. Other people judging you is not a reflection of you but rather of them and there inability to be understanding of someone's feelings.

It is the stitch one. I did take a pic the other day but unfortunately there's an identifying picture in it so I'll have to get another pic or see if I can edit it somehow. 

Ok so I found stitch tissues, ok I know it's just a box but still I got so excited like a kid in a candy store 😂. Oh and then I found a pez lolly thing. 

 

  

  

[Sunnyside226]

@Dreamy   thankyou.    I know in times like this  we should be looking out for each other. 

I know that this judgement thing  is a lot to carry    people shouldn't be shamed  for being themselves.  

I get we all have different life's we all grow up in different ways.   

Oh ok that sucks 

😂 Ooh stitch tissues how cute it that!  Is that from online?  

The last one looks so tall and happy lol 

@Dreamy have you seen  the stitch things in Kmart. I so wanna get the mystery bag  I will give hints to my sis. 😂  Btw the pictures got approved fast lol. 

This may be an odd question. Are people allowed to share their religion/culture on here?   I may ask a peer worker tomorrow, I don't know if mods are on/I don't want to bother them 

[Dreamy]

@Sunnyside226 you're so right, people shouldn't be shamed for being themselves. 

The stitch tissues were in Woolworths. Haha the pez stitch, i literally went to walk out of a shop after getting some things and saw him so brought him. 

Oh I definitely have seen the stitch things in kmart, I have to resist the urge to buy everything 😂. Hehe dropping hints to your sis 😂. Those mods are quick sometimes, they really do an amazing job behind the scenes. 

I believe you are, there is a Christian chat so it's definitely allowed. The peer support workers would be able to help more with answering that though. 

[PeppyPatti]

to be truthful, I saw my therapist today and what good do

es it do to care for yourself and talk and talking about how people need to talk, what it makes you feel like, etc…..

somedays get hard: me I’m same same but we have each other without needing to say sorry when you me ramble or cry or feel alone. 

I feel this change a coming : everything’s a little bit weird about Christmas…….. let’s be here for each other…….. 

@Sunnyside226 @Dreamy @rav3n @AuntGlow @TAB @Mazarita @SmilingGecko 

@Bunniekins @Appleblossom 

[PeppyPatti]

Sitting with you @Sunnyside226 

sending you cups of virtual tea and chocolate. 🍫 

I hope you sleep well friend 

[Sunnyside226]

@PeppyPatti thanks so much 

@Dreamy so true but unfortunately  nobody cares who they shame or treat badly.   It's why I don't post much  Too worried stressed about being shamed judged on here.  Or laughed at.

Oh ok   not being me like it's an online thing you buy 😂  everything is almost online lol  it's a cute stitch tho.

Well you know someone has to drop hints to her  not that I'm an expensive person like her 😂 my stitch thing is only $20 her Christmas list is like over $200 😂   I'll reply to the post you did earlier like aunty glow did. 

Oh ok next time I talk to aunty glow I'll ask her see if she knows.  I don't think I've ever seen Christian or anything like that on here, unless  I'm not looking in the right ways lol.  

Hope your day goes nicely 

[AuntGlow]

Good afternoon, lovely! @Sunnyside226 

I understand that feeling of wanting to give up... what is one thing that makes you not want to give up? 💖

I can hear that your family's actions have made you feel really isolated, which must be so tough... 😔

And experiencing this much loss would feel nothing short of confusing and painful. It's easy to turn inward and look for clues that things out of our control may be about us, but I wonder if we can redirect some of that attention towards being compassionate towards yourself too? Because you absolutely deserve softness and kindness right now, Sunny. 

I understand needing to be alone. 🫶

[Sunnyside226]

Hey aunty glow @AuntGlow 

One thing that makes me not want to give up is, my partner  why planning to get engaged, married have a family  may happen one day when we older. 

I hate my "new family"   they ain't family to me they are evil people if I'm allowed to say that about them. 

Your right aunty glow honestly love how could I believe in myself when everyone around me is dying in my eyes.  I've given myself a talk how to change things.  How do I give myself the right words?  

Being alone giving up walking on thin lce  is just where I am rn  it's not about being suicidal or having a plan to suicide. It's just how I do things in my way.  Sorry if that didn't make sense. 

@AuntGlow answering your post from days ago 

Don't know how to say how I am. I'm feeling numb depressed tried many other things. 

💅🏽  Is that nail polish. Haha it's lovely 

How you been doing have you checked in with yourself?  If I remember from weeks ago you said you do again I apologise if not you. 

I did chat to a mate on Monday it was an ok chat.    Talked about mental health issues etc I don't like talking about it much. 

No we haven't been yet  we are planning it for Xmas night    hopefully it be a nice sunset.  Me and madam are doing something in the day time.  @AuntGlow did I tell madam went on a date she's asked me last night if you have done the viral dance tiktok has atm. 

[PeppyPatti]

Hey @Sunnyside226 

@Mods best we ever had. If you write to team@sane.com.au 

think that’s right or press a contact ??? 

[Dreamy]

Hello @Sunnyside226, hope your day has been ok, I've been thinking of you. Apologies for not replying, I've been in a pretty crappy headspace so I've been a bit quiet on the forums.

I really do understand that all too well. The only time I'll laugh is if you split your pants doing a crazy tiktok dance or stack it on a skateboard, but then I'll be laughing with you and of course I'll make sure you're ok first 😂.

I went to kmart today, I may or may not have brought some stitch stickers 😂. 

Haha, hopefully she gets your hints. Oh gees over $200, crazy 😂. 

Tomorrow i really need to take some pics of Casper and my Christmas tree to share here. Oh I can't wait to show you hehe.