The Ice-Memery

[Cuddlebear]

@Sparky79  I’m glad you at a fair and reasonable level today. Are you working today or having a day off?  Thank you so much for understanding. It’s been brutal and I don’t like it at all. 

Im reaching out here as people understand. It’s a good safe space for it. I don’t have anyone really that understands this and friends are ghosting me pretty much 😞 

[Sparky79]

@Cuddlebear Yeah my workplace trauma / PTSD / Anxiety & Depression have prevented me from going back to paid work. I do try and volunteer at a local Buddhist monastery, but it's been months since I've been in the right head space for that.

I'm sorry about the friend situation, I have isolated myself from almost everyone that I once called friends, also family, and the lack of understanding from them, as well as feeling like a burden being a couple of the reasons.

That's a big part of the amazing people here, many of us have been through similar things, and you can only truly understand some things unless you have been through them yourself.

Stay strong and know you can do this! we are here for you

[rav3n]

"please be weird as me" is so ACCURATE @Sparky79 also the alphabetised tagging looks so neat and satisfying!

[Chasingsunsets]

Hahah! Some great ones in there @Sparky79 thanks for the laughs 🤣🙏

[Jacques]

 

[Glisten]

@Jacques  from your comic strip post, it’s clear that you have walked past my place 😆

[ENKELI]

@Cuddlebear you are such a wonderful caring person. Anyone who ghosts you doesn't deserve to have you in their life.

I understand that feeling, being ghosted by my best friend and non romantic soul mate pretty much put me in a downward spiral for nearly 3 years. I'm only just coming out the other side now.

Please know how important you are to me and many other Sane friends. 

Be kind to yourself, you are more than worthy xo 🤗 😘 

[Cuddlebear]

@ENKELI   Hello lovely. How are you? Thank you for your beautiful message. I really needed it and I’m so sorry you’ve also had the same experience. You are amazing and a kind, generous and very awesome human. 

How is your day coming along? I know it’s been a rough week for you too. 

[ENKELI]

@Cuddlebear I am so glad that my message helped you. As a Christian I often question why God allows things to happen to me - my life hasn't been all that wonderful - but there is a saying I relate to in these situations. "What Satan intended for evil, God changes to good."
By my going through this horrible situation with ex friend I am able to relate to others who have had the same thing happen.

I'm sorry it happened to me, but even more sorry that you've had to endure it too.

As my Irish ancestors would say - céad míle beannacht - a hundred thousand blessings.

And I feel blessed to be getting to know you 🙂

[Mustang67]

@Sparky79 thanks for giving me a laugh, they were all great. And it cracked me up that you arranged the tags alphabetically. That's something that I would do, when my mind is working on all cylinders. My last boss said i was anally retentive, because everything had to be in order and precise. 

My Dad taught me the lefty loosey righty tighty, and I have used it often.

It took me a few seconds to work out why someone would almost pee in their pants, but then I finally saw it. Lol