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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

good afternoon @Ali11 , @Darcy , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Dec , @greenpea , @Sherry 

mum has been in hospital for nearly 3 weeks now

been going up everyday except for the week we were away

she looked soooo tired this morning at lunch time

not letting her have a shower until  she is more awake because she might fall asleep and fall

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

 

@outlander 

mum has been in hospital for nearly 3 weeks now

been going up everyday except for the week we were away

she looked soooo tired this morning at lunch time

not letting her have a shower until she is more awake because she might fall asleep and fall in the shower

 

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

im sorry your mums not well @Shaz51 i hope she starts to feel better soon. do they know whats wrong with her?

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

yes @outlander , reoccuring bowel obrustions which are not getting better , they may have to do another bowel surgery

she does not seem to be getting better this time , the hospital is the best place for her to be but she wants to go home

soo much is up in the air at the moment xx

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

doesnt sound very pleasant @Shaz51 i hope they can help her soon. yes your right, hospital does sound like the best place for her right now.

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Hello @outlander , @Ali11 , @Darcy , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Sherry , @Dec , @Adge , @Smc 

mum is back home again , she is trying to cancell her appt tomorrow with the bowel specialist

the Doctor here wants mum to go as it will make a difference to her quilty of life

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Can you suggest to Mum that listening to what doc says does not mean she needs to agree to anything and any benefit vs risk can be considered in light of what they say  @Shaz51 

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too late , I tried @Darcy , but mum has cancell again until she feels better in herself , Ohhh around we go again xx

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

hope your mum manages to get to that appointment tomorrow @Shaz51 it sounds like she really needs to go

Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Sending gentle thoughts your way @Shaz51,.

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