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18-09-2018 07:19 PM
18-09-2018 07:19 PM
Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
The quality of the relationship is definitely key. I currently have more support in my recovery than I ever have, and I don't doubt how much these people do care about me or that they really listen to me. Yet I feel lonelier than when I just had one very good close connection with someone else.
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18-09-2018 07:22 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
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18-09-2018 07:22 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
That's probably the best definition I've heard to date.
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18-09-2018 07:23 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
That's a really interesting perspective @Pinky. Can you share how you show yourself that kindness or meet those needs? It sounds like a great skill to have learned.
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18-09-2018 07:24 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
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18-09-2018 07:24 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
Hi all, jumping in a bit late, I resonate with Utopia too - feel a lack of belonging to my passions - environment, politics, animals - since I stopped working and spend so much time on my own, I feel disconneted. For me lonliness is more a sense of not belonging anywhere.
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18-09-2018 07:25 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
I think community has stopped being valued and placed as a key element of daily life @suzanne. People knew who you were. You knew them. It was nothing out of the ordinary to stop and talk for 15 minutes with someone at the shops.
Now, society seems to be in a rush, (to get somewhere). Valuing people isn't important anymore. It's all about valuing things.
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18-09-2018 07:25 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
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18-09-2018 07:26 PM
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Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
That's a complex question @suzanne
My friends nearly all cut me off, when my marriage ended - at the very time when I needed support & connection the most.
That made it so much harder to work through grief, & to move forward.
I've not been able to make enough new friendships (since then), to re-connect socially (in that sense).
It seems much harder to connect & network with people as I'm older - despite all the techno-internet advances etc.
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18-09-2018 07:26 PM - edited 18-09-2018 07:27 PM
18-09-2018 07:26 PM - edited 18-09-2018 07:27 PM
Re: Topic Tuesday // Exploring Loneliness // Tues 18 Sep, 7pm AEDT
@utopia I feel the same way about wanting a connection on the things that matter most to you. I also miss having someone to come home to.