I can’t cope

[Captain24]

I guess it’s a no win situation. @tyme 

My list has just gotten way too much. I can’t do it. I’ve put way too much pressure on myself. I ‘feel’ like I’m just useless. But I guess a reframe would be ‘it’s been a hard afternoon I can do it all tomorrow’ 

Did you get your things done? 

[tyme]

In the light of data, we get many more people getting upset because they don't get tagged than people who do get tagged. If you have particular concerns about certain people regularly tagging you, it may be good to be open an honest about it to them. We can support you if you wanted to flick us a draft post to them (only if you wanted to).

Instead of looking at the whole list, can you just pick 1 or two things. It's okay to pivot. Set new goals now and just focus on achieving those @Captain24 ?

I can be your buddy for the next hour and I can check in regularly.

What's top priority to do now?

[Captain24]

It’s ok. I don’t want to upset anyone @tyme. I don’t like too and anyway it’s probably just me. I’m not worth the worry.

I think a good place to start would be finishing the ironing. So I can say something is finished. 

[tyme]

Go for it @Captain24 .

Let me know how you go. 

Message me once you have completed even the first one.

[Captain24]

My ironing is all done @tyme.

Now to pack it all away. 

[Jynx]

Hiya @Captain24 !!

Oooh getting it DONE, love it!! I hate the 'putting away' part of laundry day tho lol

[Captain24]

Heya @Jynx How you doin’

Its all packed away. 

Now to fold the sheets and doona cover that came of my bed @tyme 

[tyme]

Good on you @Captain24 ! Well done. I know it took a lot of energy to get that done.

Let me know once the bedding is done too.

[Jynx]

You got a trick for folding fitted sheets @Captain24  or do you use the 'shove/cram' technique like me? 🤣

[Captain24]

Bedding is done @tyme and dishwasher unpacked and repacked. 

So I have completed the ironing. 

I’ve completed the kitchen

Ive complete the sheet change over. 

I can now say I have completed something. 

I still need to vacuum and sweep the floors. 

I put the corners together of each side. Fold it in three and then roll @Jynx