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17-06-2020 09:36 PM
17-06-2020 09:36 PM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
@TheVorticon I have a telehealth appointment with my psych on Saturday but I haven't done any 'work' since last time....
I'm not sure how it will help
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20-06-2020 09:58 AM
20-06-2020 09:58 AM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
@Appleblossom I have a telehealth phone
appointment now.....waiting for call
not sure how it will help...
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20-06-2020 12:38 PM
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20-06-2020 06:52 PM
20-06-2020 06:52 PM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
How long are you 'on break' for?🙂
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20-06-2020 09:17 PM
20-06-2020 09:17 PM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
Tbh I am not always sure that counselling does help. A lot of it does depend on what you put in, but that might be your unique way of looking at things .. it might not always be set homework. Tbh I am feeling cross that not many of my psychs have set any ..
Hope you are doing alright @jamesle2015
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20-06-2020 09:57 PM
20-06-2020 09:57 PM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
@Appleblossom The psych said without the covid we could have done more...
most of the session was spent discussing how I see myself ..
She said she would have to work on one thing at a time....
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20-06-2020 10:15 PM
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21-06-2020 09:28 AM
21-06-2020 09:28 AM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
@jamesle2015 wrote:How long are you 'on break' for?🙂
Not sure. I've been using forums/chatrooms more than real-life interactions for (literally) half my life, so I'm trying to see if cutting back online will help me become less stuck.
The break has been mixed so far, and I do miss interacting with people online. It's meant I've had less support with some things, and I had to contact my psych about something between sessions that I normally wouldn't have (which was scary in itself). So I'm still undecided.
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24-06-2020 06:32 AM
24-06-2020 06:32 AM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
@TheVorticon Just dropping off a hi. 👋👋💞💞 No respond needed, just letting you know you are in my thoughts.
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24-06-2020 11:32 AM
24-06-2020 11:32 AM
Re: Attachment weirdness, neediness, shame
Hugs @Maggie
Hi @jamesle2015
@TheVorticonIts good you are giving irl a go, but my son also says so many of the generation just are not good at irl interaction. He was a high tek user, but detoxing. SO dont take lo interaction rates personally. It is a different world. Think you are doing the right thing tho. I decided to post a lot on this forum to try and understand son's generation rather than be "in opposition" to online stuff. I was late to it. There is a good and bad in it ... a mixed bag.